I make my a few steps away from the rest so I can speak to my boys alone. I am aware others can, and more then likely will, be listening. But that isn't the point. The point is to have a direct conversation. Because other's opinions are invalid. This is family business.
"Gentleman, you are no doubt aware by now that Julian has left the domain. He asked for me to express his sorrow at having to depart so rapidly, and to assure you both that if it were not of the utmost importance, he would have stayed."
I pause for a moment, allowing time for what I said to set in, if they didn't already know.
"Now, on to business. A Clan Whip is needed. As you have both been here for a equal span of time, I believe you both are up to the task." Little white lies... "Shall I pick, or will you two decide for yourselves?"