The way Gerrit talks makes her heart ache a little for him. She is a Fairest, she doesn't know what it is like to look in the mirror and- well, actually, she wasn't always like- but that doesn't matter. She'd never been like Gerrit or other Lost who dealt with that large of a change. Looking in the mirror, she can still see herself, mostly. Gerrit, beyond his mask, is significantly different. Someone seeing beauty in him... yeah, she could see how that would make him feel so conflicted.
Her mind briefly flashes to John, the way he sobbed when she told him that she saw him. That tugs her heart for a moment, a sensation of butterflies and warmth. It was when he'd finally recognized her feelings for him, accepted them, recognized his own for her in return. And now they have each other. It felt weird in that moment when she recognized Flaws had been playing while she'd been thinking about it, a slight blush coming to her cheeks.
"I believe you told me not so long ago that you just wanted to see me happy. I want the same for you. Whether it is a projection of hurt or loneliness, even if it starts because she's the first who shows you affection, so what? How the fire started doesn't negate the fact that the fire is there." There is a moment where she wonders if she'd be giving the same advice had John rejected her. But he didn't, and while they are keeping it to themselves, it doesn't change the fact that she is happier than she has been in a very long time. Gerrit deserves that too.
Ice Law. Inwardly, she cringes. It is why they're keeping their relationship a secret. She'd advise Gerrit to do the same, but... he wouldn't, would he? He'd probably rather be miserable than hide his affections like that. He seems like the type to just love with every fiber of his being.
"And on age," She shakes her head, "We're fae. Time is so relative. My ex was technically 12 years older than me. We were born the same year. Heck, I think John is like a good 7 or 8 years younger than me, but I was born only a couple of years before him." She shrugs before realizing the potential slip, so she immediately adds in, "And given time didn't seem to mess you up, I imagine then that we are also close to the same actual age. Actually, I've learned recently that quite a few of us were taking in the late 80s and 90s... I don't know what to do with that information yet, but it is kind of startling." Yes. Keep moving it forward and away from that line.
"All of this is to say, stop giving yourself excuses as to why not. Hmm... I might be starting to sound like a Spring," She shakes her head, "At the same time with all of this," Crap. I guess I am going to have to mention it. "As a Winter, we need to be careful of others knowing our true feelings, desires. They can be used against us. However, needing to take care doesn't mean you don't do it or try it."
Another pause, "This may sound kind of terrifying but... just go with it. See where it leads. Do you want me to go all wingman for you?" She asks with a little giggle. "Girls talk lots of girl talk. It doesn't take much of anything to get us to talk about nasty things boys can't imagine us talking about." And then she bats her eyelashes a little.