(Private) Manners & Etiquette

[Daniella Sage]

“You are correct on the informal.” She replied, “But formal address is the Title of Esteem combined with Title of Function. If the Kindred you are addressing has no Title of Function, then his or her last name will suffice. In my case, it would be Lady Au Pair. Now if the Kindred has more than one Title of Function, the one that most applies to the situation at hand is used.” Her tone was one of being helpful. “It can get a little tricky, and perhaps I should have been more specific when I explained the various tones.” Something to defiantly add the next time she has a meeting like this.

A wide smile and a nod of her head, “That is the correct sequence. Learning the various Titles and their correct sequence is one of the more difficult aspects of etiquette and manners. The wrong order of Titles, and incorrect tone can be disastrous to a Kindred.” She pointed out.

“How comfortable are you with the customs and etiquette surrounding Invictus gift giving and receiving?” she asked.

[Daniella Sage]

“What a lovely gift to offer another Kindred!” she exclaimed. Gifts that were handmade in some way always had the special personal touch.

“Giving a gift is a good thing to do, but it doesn’t come without its risks. You always run the risk of the gift being ill received or rejected. Which presents a whole list of other problems for one to face. The recipient of a gift has a small amount of power, for they can chose to reject the gift. The act of giving a gift is a remarkable statement. It could imply affection, support or even deference. The most important part of this practice, is that the gift being given has significance.” Now significance meant different things to different Kindred. “And yes, it is always good practice to bring a gift to the host of an event. Though it is worthy to note that simply attending an event indicates support for the host. Now, as I am sure you are aware, the gift that is chosen should be appropriate to the Kindred and send the correct message. One would not give a collector of art a poster copy of a work of art could show contempt for the recipient. It suggest you don’t think the collector can tell the difference. The same can be said with jewelry.” She added. “Gift giving is a delicate practice, and should be done with care. And while it may be a gesture of courtesy, it is a whole other thing to display the gift received.”

[Daniella Sage]

She laughed softly at his joke, “That is quite the accent!” she said, clearly delighted. “You must have been practicing.” She added with a wink.

“That sounds like it was a beautiful hall. I would like to someday decorate my Haven in various pieces of art as I come into them. I find it adds something special to a space.” She said thoughtfully.

“And you are correct, it is both appreciation and association. Your Sire taught you well.” She replied.

“Not that I foresee this as being an issue with you, but there is something to be said for always showing the proper respect for another Invictus in public. While you may not always agree with, or get along with every member, respect must be given.”

She leans back in her seat, “Now tell me Mister Garreta de Cordoba, do you have questions or concerns over what we have gone over? Anything you feel I should go over again? Or anything you feel like discussing?”

[Daniella Sage]

She didn’t foresee any issues with Juan, and was pleased at his words.

“I am glad to hear I have answered your questions.” She replied with a nod and a smile. “It was an honor Mister Garreta de Cordoba, and an enjoyable evening.”

Sensing the evening was drawing to a close, “Though I do hope we are able to sit down again at some point and discuss something besides Domain business. Perhaps art or whatever other topic we can come up with.”