Since Changeling has had it's ups and downs over the last few years I'll be consolidating all the Rules and helpful points in this post.
Pledges
As said in Changeling 2017
Changeling has historically had a pretty lax take on Pledges. For the most part they've been used as a goodie grab-bag and rarely (if ever) have Sanctions been enforced. That's going to change, and Pledges will revert to RAW with a few tweaks. While this may seem a bit harsh, the truth is that soured bargains are just as much a part of fae tradition as anything else. Ignoring such is a disservice to the setting. Some might point out that Pledges are the main reasons for Motleys, but sharing Hollows confer a ton of benefits as found in all venues. So let's run through the changes.
Freehold Oath
(If voted to be done away with)
Will be going away entirely. For years it's been mechanically un-sound and unwieldy in-character. All current Freehold Oaths are dissolved and no new ones are required.
Duration
Until a character has been in play a year, only Lesser and Medial Durations are available. These range from a single day to a season and offer plenty of flexibility. Once a character is proven to reasonably be expected to fulfill a Greater Duration by being in play for a year, they can then use Greater Durations in their Pledges.
Sanctity
Once a Pledge is made, it is either fulfilled or broken. This is per RAW. Their is no 'mutual dissolution' or 'hand-waving' if a character leaves the game. If a character leaves, the Pledge is broken. Period. Be careful with your Pledges. There are no more 'freebies' or ignoring Sanctions.
Mechanics
Pledges have been one of the traditional time sinks of Changeling Storytellers, and mostly because players aren't doing their due diligence with the rules. If you don't understand the mechanics of Pledges, you have no business making them.
We have a pretty amazing table/walk-through on Pledges.
When a Pledge is made, the wording and mechanics should be recorded in the appropriate thread. It is up to all parties to vet both (feel free to discuss OOCly). If the mechanics are sound, an ST will note the Pledge has taken hold. If the mechanics are not sound, the Pledge will simply not take hold and be wasted breath. The Wyrd is not a teacher or babysitter.
You will have two attempts to make a sound Pledge before it is nixed entirely. This will keep the back-and-forth with Storytellers to a minimum and put the burden on the player(s) to do due diligence with the rules. A nixed Pledge cannot be re-attempted for two months. However, each dot of Pledgesmith will give a character an additional attempt. So if a character has Pledgesmith (●●), they may take four attempts.
Bookkeeping
Successful Pledges should be recorded in the Signature or Minisheet of a Changeling including a link to the post with the details.
XP Spend Requests
This has been a rule for a long while, but it might need to be restated for all our wonderful new people!
When you're making your XP Spend Requestions, please limit them to ONE request per month. So, for instance, instead of asking to buy:
#Attribute: Stamina 3 = -15 on the 7th, and #Merit: Fast Reflexes 1 = -2 on the 11th, please instead group them all into ONE spend request for that month. For example:
#Attribute: Stamina 3 = -15
#Merit: Fast Reflexes 1 = -2
#Skill: Computers 1 = -3
In other words, yes, you can buy multiple things in the same spend request.
If there's 10 players in a venue, that's 10 requests a month already. Splitting up your requests across the month multiplies that and increases ST overhead. Furthermore, if you want help tracking all of your spend requests, we have a helpful notepad which can be found beneath your account name in the control bar (between Account and Notifications).
Note: Remember, you can only increase merits, skills, contracts, etc by ONE DOT per month. So you can't buy Allies 5 in one month. It would take 5 months.
Also! Purchasing Equipment As determined by the Rules. You can only make ONE Resources purchase post per-month, like the XP Requests.
So, if you have Resources 3, you can only buy one cost 3 item that month. OR! You could buy three cost 1 items, or one cost 2 item and one cost 1 item.
BUT!
You couldn't buy a cost 1 item, and then days later, buy another cost 1 item.