We all like a good love story so you got a pass on the first scene, but we're also not glossing over the fact that we're undead monsters.
Unless Vampires Blush, they're basically corpses, especially at lower Humanities.
Kissing is basically grating bone dry, ice cold lips and tongues together and needs to be acknowledged in narration that any sort of contact is basically touching a corpse.
Welcome to being undead and the many, many reasons Vitae Is Good.